Even after only reading the first three chapters of Housekeeping, I can’t help but feel great sympathy for Ruth and Lucille. First, they are born under their mother, Helen, and father, Reginald Stone, but, neither of them remember very much about Reginald Stone. They can only recount the pictures they saw of their mother’s wedding, where he seemed to be unaware that he was even being photographed. Since the book is narrated by Ruth, we are really only given her perspective. When describing life at home with Helen, Ruth only tells us what the house looked like and what furniture it had. She mentions Helen once when she tells us that she “put lengths of clotheslines through our belts and fastened them to the doorknob, an arrangement that nerved us to look over the side of the porch, even when the wind was strong” (21). Having little to no idea what their mother is actually like (let alone what she truly looks like), Ruth associates her mother with mystery and uncertainty.
But after Helen drops her kids off on their grandmother’s porch that was “populated by a cat and a matronly washing machine” (22), and drives off a cliff, it was time for Silvia, their grandmother, to take care of the girls. Sylvia liked routine and order, and so she lived by this until the day she died. Their grandmother reverted back to her ways that she practiced with Helen and her sisters were still young girls in this house in Fingerbone. Sylvia was nervous about the girls leaving too, but she was too deep into her routine to change. But once Sylvia died, her sisters-in-law, Lily and Nona, took over caring for Ruth and Lucille. According to Ruth’s ridiculous description: “Lily and Nona both had light blue hair and black coats with shiny black beads in intricate patterns on the lapels. Their thick bodies pitched forward from the hips, and their arms and ankles were plump.. They were, though maiden ladies, of a buxomly maternal appearance that contrasted oddly with their brusque, unpracticed pats and kisses” (29). Even from this initial description, not even hearing them speak, we can already see that both women have not made a good impression on Ruth. When we do see how both speak, and how they interact with Ruth and Lucille, we can see that they are intent on getting out of Fingerbone and going back to their place at The Hartwick.
But soon, Lily and Nona decide to try and contact Sylvie, one of Helen’s sisters, to come and visit them in Fingerbone. After a little time, Sylvie does show up, and about twenty four hours later, Lily and Nona head back to The Hartwick, leaving Ruth and Lucille in Sylvie’s care. Although we have only read a few pages on how Sylvie is with the girls, we can already see that she will (hopefully) be a great influence on them. I just hope that she stays, since everyone else in Ruth’s and Lucille’s life has left them. It’s quite sad to think about this, but Ruth and Lucille are like a baton being passed from caretaker to caretaker. This is why I hope Sylvie is there to stay to help the girls come of age and find their own paths.